The Behavioral Mental Heath Team works to identify, support, educate and develop parish ministry along with support groups for clergy throughout the diocese. We also provide educational opportunities for those around the diocese which may include training in depression, suicide assessment, mental health first aid, and resources for referral and treatment.
Events & Opportunities
Monthly Lunch & Learns:
August - November Lunch & Learns will feature the Rev. Robert A. Kem, retired Episcopal priest, hospice chaplain, and AFTD (Association for Frontotemporal Degeneration) Ambassador serving Nebraska, Iowa, and the Midwest.
This four-part Lunch & Learn series introduces Frontotemporal Degeneration, explores the challenges faced by individuals and families living with the disease, and highlights ways communities can offer informed, compassionate support. Each session is approximately 50 minutes and includes time for questions and discussion.
The goal of these Lunch & Learn sessions is to increase awareness of Frontotemporal Degeneration, encourage earlier recognition, support caregivers, and equip healthcare professionals, clergy, community leaders, and families with practical knowledge and compassionate resources.
Bio:
The Rev. Robert A Kem is a retired Episcopal priest of 40 years experience with the Diocese of Arizona, Nebraska and Iowa with four years with Mercy Hospice in Des Moines. This has been followed by coursework in grief training with Dr. Alan Wolfelt from Fort Collins Colorado who teaches at The Center for Grief and Life Transitions.
The Rev. Robert Kem was married to Debbie J. Kem for 50 years. In December of 2021 she was diagnosed with bvFTD (behavioral variant frontotemporal dementia) and died at home on July 27, 2025.
Since Debbie’s death Fr. Bob has been become an Ambassador for AFTD for the State of Nebraska, Iowa and the Mid-West focused on educating medical personnel on FTD and building support teams for caretakers. He offers a monthly support group on line for family members have family diagnosed with FTD.
November 17, noon - 1pm on Zoom
Clergy and Congregational Support for Individuals and Families Living with FTD
A session for clergy, lay leaders, and faith communities on providing pastoral care, practical assistance, and compassionate support to individuals living with FTD and those who care for them.
Blue Christmas
December 13 at 2:00pm - Blue Christmas Service, First United Methodist Church, Ames
December 13 4:00pm - Indianola First United Methodist Church
December 13 at 5:00pm - North Liberty First United Methodist Church
December 17 at 7:30pm - Blue Christmas Service, First Presbyterian Church, Cedar Rapids
December 16 at 6:00pm (EST)- Blue Christmas Service, Washington National Cathedral, DC
December 20 at 6:00pm - Blue Christmas Service, Marion Christian Church
December 21 at 5:00pm - First United Methodist Church, Mason City
December 21 at 6:00 pm - Christ Episcopal Church, Cedar Rapids
Blue Christmas How-To
December 1 at 6:00pm
Zoom Registration coming soon
The Christmas season is often seen as a time of great joy and celebration and yet, for many, the holiday is not so merry and bright, especially for those who experiencing loss and grief. Whether it is the loss of a loved one, the loss of a relationship, a job, health, or joy, many have found comfort during the holidays by gathering together for what is often called a Blue Christmas Service or the longest night service.
In it, we gather to remind ourselves that God is still with us in our loss or pain and that others are with us as well.
To assist parishes that may wish to offer an opportunity for folks throughout the entire community to find a place of comfort and togetherness during what can be a difficult time, the Behavioral Health Ministries Team has created a simple liturgy and instructions that can be used by any size congregation, lay or clergy led. In addition, a best practices/Q & A session will be offered via Zoom on Tuesday, Dec 1 @ 6pm to further help congregations who may feel called to add this opportunity to their December worship offerings.
Don't forget to let us know the date and time of your local service so we can share it on our website, Facebook page, and December E-News! Email Rev. Laurie Finn with details of your upcoming services.
Downloadable Blue Christmas Materials will be available soon.
Partner Organizations
NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Health) of Central Iowa’s goal is to inspire better lives for Central Iowans affected by mental illness. They work to achieve this goal through support programs, educational outreach, and advocacy on local, state and national levels.
Mind & Spirit Counseling Center offers high-quality mental health services to people from all walks of life, including those who are uninsured, underinsured or from low-income households.
The Iowa Primary Care Association supports Iowa's community health centers and Iowa’s Behavioral Health Delivery System. With an ongoing commitment to expanding access to quality, affordable, and accessible primary and preventive healthcare services, we work to support individuals and communities in reaching their full health potential.
Resources
Mental Heath Funds Request Form
The Episcopal Diocese of Iowa, through a GILEAD Grant, has limited funds to assist with co-payments for mental health related appointments. You may request incremental funds for up to $50 per appointment. A completed request form is required for each appointment, and you must submit a receipt for reimbursement or have a bill sent to the Diocesan office. Funds will be distributed on a first come, first serve basis.
Meditation Video Series
from Katy Lee & Christ Episcopal Church, Cedar Rapids
This series of videos is designed to help you relax, recharge, and focus on self care in the midst of a chaotic world.” These practices do not need to be viewed in any particular order and you are encouraged to try these techniques on a regular basis.
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National Suicide Prevention Lifeline - 988 or 1-800-273-TALK (8255)
Your Life Iowa - Call: (855)-581-8111, Text: (855)-895-8398, or Chat
Trevor Project: Support for LGBTQ+ youth; Call 1-866-488-7386 or Text ‘START’ to 678-678
Trans Lifeline: 877-565-8860
RAINN – Sexual Abuse Hotline; Call 800-656-HOPE (4673) or Text HOPE to 64673
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includes Suicide Prevention and Intervention Training, Mental Health & Suicide Prevention Education and Resources, Faith Based resources, Training & Advocacy resources; click here
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JOPPA: Mental Health & Homelessness, with Joe Stephens; June 2026
When Hope Feels Hard: Resurrection Encounters & the Practice of Emotional Regulation, with Hannah Landgraf; April 2026
Minding the Gaps: Mental Health Care reform, lobbying for critical legislation and how to advocate for yourself and others, with Kali VanBaale; March 2026
How Churches Can be More Neurodivergent Friendly, with Rev. Joseph Yoo, an Episcopal priest, writer, and TikTok creator; January 2026
What is Q.P.R. (Question. Persuade. Refer.) Training? with Pastor Nikoli Falenschek, from St. Paul’s Lutheran Church & School in Waverly, Iowa; October 2025
Suicide Prevention Month: Start a Conversation. Be the Difference, with Roxanne Petersen, President & CEO of the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) Central Iowa; September 2025
The Church & Youth Mental Health: Discoveries & Tools,with Rev. Eric Rucker, campus chaplain at Simpson College & Director of the Simpson Youth Academy, Assisting priest at St. Andrews Episcopal, Des Moines; August 2025
The Masks We Wear: Finding Your Identity in a World of Expectations,Dr. Kristen Meyers, owner & CEO of Joyful Mind Psychiatry; July 2025
Mental Illness and a Hopeful Vision for the Church, with Rev. Dr. Sarah Griffith Lund, pastor, author and advocate; May 2025
Rage Prayers, with Rev. Elizabeth Ashman Riley, an Episcopal priest serving in the Diocese of Olympia, and author of "Rage Prayers;" March 2025
Suicide Prevention: The Role of Faith Communities, with Katy Kramer Lee, a licensed clinical social worker and member of Christ Episcopal Church, Cedar Rapids; February 2025
Ask Me Anything about Living with a Mental Illness, with Julie Gross, member of Christ Episcopal Church, Cedar Rapids; January 2025
Mental Health First Aid & Blue Christmas Services, with Rev. Laurie Finn, an Episcopal deacon and certified Mental Health First Aid Instructor; December 2024
What is Spiritual Direction? with Chris Waddle, Director of Leadership and Spiritual Life at Mind & Spirit Counseling Center; November 2024