The Behavioral Mental Heath Team works to identify, support, educate and develop parish ministry along with support groups for clergy throughout the diocese. We also provide educational opportunities for those around the diocese which may include training in depression, suicide assessment, mental health first aid, and resources for referral and treatment.
Events & Opportunities
No July Lunch & Learn
Monthly Lunch & Learns:
August - November will feature the Rev. Bob Kem, with various discussions related to frontotemporal dementia and caregiving.
Bio:
The Rev. Robert A Kem is a retired Episcopal priest of 40 years experience with the Diocese of Arizona, Nebraska and Iowa with four years with Mercy Hospice in Des Moines. This has been followed by coursework in grief training with Dr. Alan Wolfelt from Fort Collins Colorado who teaches at The Center for Grief and Life Transitions.
The Rev. Robert Kem was married to Debbie J. Kem for 50 years. In December of 2021 she was diagnosed with bvFTD (behavioral variant frontotemporal dementia) and died at home on July 27, 2025.
Since Debbie’s death Fr. Bob has been become an Ambassador for AFTD for the State of Nebraska, Iowa and the Mid-West focused on educating medical personnel on FTD and building support teams for caretakers. He offers a monthly support group on line for family members have family diagnosed with FTD.
August 18, noon - 1pm on Zoom
What is FTD? How does FTD differ from Alzheimer’s?
September 15, noon - 1pm on Zoom
Bob’s personal experiences with bvFTD as caretaker for his wife Debbie diagnosed in 2021 and died in July 27, 2026.
October 20, noon - 1pm on Zoom
Introduction to Emma Willis’s book “The Unexpected Journey” and the learning as a caretaker for her husband Bruce Willis who was diagnosed with Aphasia FTD. She discovers the need for building a support team and shares her insights.
November 17, noon - 1pm on Zoom
Clergy, congregations and their continuous support of families facing FTD diagnosis.
What are we doing for the ongoing support of caregivers as the primary persons who need physical, emotional, and spiritual well being during the diagnosis until the death of the FTD patient ?
Then begins the journey for grief counseling with others who become companions on this new way of life.
Connecting Heaven & Earth: Mind-Body-Spirit Retreat
October 31: 10am-3pm at Christ Episcopal Church, Cedar Rapids
Contemplative practices and related spiritual wisdom for expanding awareness of Oneness while rebalancing mind, body, and spirit. Includes Practicing Presence infused prayer, gentle Life Force Energy-Spirit meditative movement (Qigong), and surrendered resting in God through sublime singing bowl healing sounds and vibration. Bring your own Nest of Comfort (see full registration info.). Led by Rev. Dr. Catherine Quehl-Engel.
All are welcome to this free event.
Lunch will be provided.
RSVP deadline: Oct 26.
Partner Organizations
NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Health) of Central Iowa’s goal is to inspire better lives for Central Iowans affected by mental illness. They work to achieve this goal through support programs, educational outreach, and advocacy on local, state and national levels.
Mind & Spirit Counseling Center offers high-quality mental health services to people from all walks of life, including those who are uninsured, underinsured or from low-income households.
The Iowa Primary Care Association supports Iowa's community health centers and Iowa’s Behavioral Health Delivery System. With an ongoing commitment to expanding access to quality, affordable, and accessible primary and preventive healthcare services, we work to support individuals and communities in reaching their full health potential.
Resources
Mental Heath Funds Request Form
The Episcopal Diocese of Iowa, through a GILEAD Grant, has limited funds to assist with co-payments for mental health related appointments. You may request incremental funds for up to $50 per appointment. A completed request form is required for each appointment, and you must submit a receipt for reimbursement or have a bill sent to the Diocesan office. Funds will be distributed on a first come, first serve basis.
Meditation Video Series
from Katy Lee & Christ Episcopal Church, Cedar Rapids
This series of videos is designed to help you relax, recharge, and focus on self care in the midst of a chaotic world.” These practices do not need to be viewed in any particular order and you are encouraged to try these techniques on a regular basis.
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National Suicide Prevention Lifeline - 988 or 1-800-273-TALK (8255)
Your Life Iowa - Call: (855)-581-8111, Text: (855)-895-8398, or Chat
Trevor Project: Support for LGBTQ+ youth; Call 1-866-488-7386 or Text ‘START’ to 678-678
Trans Lifeline: 877-565-8860
RAINN – Sexual Abuse Hotline; Call 800-656-HOPE (4673) or Text HOPE to 64673
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includes Suicide Prevention and Intervention Training, Mental Health & Suicide Prevention Education and Resources, Faith Based resources, Training & Advocacy resources; click here
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JOPPA: Mental Health & Homelessness, with Joe Stephens; June 2026
When Hope Feels Hard: Resurrection Encounters & the Practice of Emotional Regulation, with Hannah Landgraf; April 2026
Minding the Gaps: Mental Health Care reform, lobbying for critical legislation and how to advocate for yourself and others, with Kali VanBaale; March 2026
How Churches Can be More Neurodivergent Friendly, with Rev. Joseph Yoo, an Episcopal priest, writer, and TikTok creator; January 2026
What is Q.P.R. (Question. Persuade. Refer.) Training? with Pastor Nikoli Falenschek, from St. Paul’s Lutheran Church & School in Waverly, Iowa; October 2025
Suicide Prevention Month: Start a Conversation. Be the Difference, with Roxanne Petersen, President & CEO of the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) Central Iowa; September 2025
The Church & Youth Mental Health: Discoveries & Tools,with Rev. Eric Rucker, campus chaplain at Simpson College & Director of the Simpson Youth Academy, Assisting priest at St. Andrews Episcopal, Des Moines; August 2025
The Masks We Wear: Finding Your Identity in a World of Expectations,Dr. Kristen Meyers, owner & CEO of Joyful Mind Psychiatry; July 2025
Mental Illness and a Hopeful Vision for the Church, with Rev. Dr. Sarah Griffith Lund, pastor, author and advocate; May 2025
Rage Prayers, with Rev. Elizabeth Ashman Riley, an Episcopal priest serving in the Diocese of Olympia, and author of "Rage Prayers;" March 2025
Suicide Prevention: The Role of Faith Communities, with Katy Kramer Lee, a licensed clinical social worker and member of Christ Episcopal Church, Cedar Rapids; February 2025
Ask Me Anything about Living with a Mental Illness, with Julie Gross, member of Christ Episcopal Church, Cedar Rapids; January 2025
Mental Health First Aid & Blue Christmas Services, with Rev. Laurie Finn, an Episcopal deacon and certified Mental Health First Aid Instructor; December 2024
What is Spiritual Direction? with Chris Waddle, Director of Leadership and Spiritual Life at Mind & Spirit Counseling Center; November 2024